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“I’m Not That Interesting”—And Other Myths That Keep Us Quiet

Fayomi Fashanu
Fayomi Fashanu |

Have you ever said (or thought), “No one needs to hear my story” or “I haven’t done anything special”?

You’re not alone.

Many people—especially those in later stages of life—downplay their experiences. After all, if you haven’t written a bestseller, climbed Everest, or won awards, what’s the point of sharing your story?

But here’s the truth:

What’s ordinary to you might be extraordinary to someone else.
Especially to your children, grandchildren, and future generations.

The Stories You Don’t Think Matter—Do

You might not think twice about the years you spent working, raising a family, traveling, surviving loss, or building a life. But those experiences hold meaning.

They’re a window into a time, a mindset, and a way of living that is disappearing fast.

Think about it:

  • What did milk cost when you were a child?

  • How did your family get through tough times?

  • What advice would you give your younger self?

  • What’s changed since you were young—and what hasn’t?

These are not “trivial” details.
They’re pieces of history. Personal, emotional, human history.

Why We Downplay Ourselves

There’s a cultural habit—especially among older generations—of keeping things to yourself. You worked hard. You didn’t complain. You just got on with it.

That strength is admirable. But it can also mean that your story never gets shared—until it’s too late.

And that’s a loss. Not just for you, but for the people who love you.
Because they do want to know. Even if they don’t always know how to ask.

Sharing Isn’t Boasting. It’s a Gift.

Telling your story isn’t about bragging. It’s about connection.

It’s about letting others know what life looked like from your seat.
It’s about helping your children and grandchildren understand who you are—beyond the role you played in their lives.

It’s about making sure that what you’ve seen, felt, and lived through doesn’t vanish when you’re no longer here to tell it.

Capturing It Can Be Simple

You don’t need to write a book.
You don’t need to “perform.”

You just need someone to ask the right questions and give you the space to speak—naturally, in your own time, in your own home.

At Heritage House Studio, we help people do exactly that—gently capturing their stories on film so they can be passed down with love and care.

You Are Interesting. You Are Worth Remembering.

Even if you’ve never thought of yourself as a storyteller.
Even if you don’t think you’ve done anything “special.”

Because sometimes, the most meaningful stories are the quietest ones.


Let’s explore what it might look like to share yours.

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