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Why Your Life Story Matters More Than You Think

Fayomi Fashanu
Fayomi Fashanu |

Many people, especially in later life, quietly wonder:

“Who would care about my story?”
“What’s so special about what I’ve lived?”
“Isn’t everyone’s life like this?”
 

And yet, ask almost any adult child what they wish they had more of from a loved one who’s passed, and the answer is nearly always the same:

“I wish I knew more about their life.”
“I wish I had asked more questions.”
“I wish I had recorded their stories.”

The truth is, your story matters more than you think—not because of how extraordinary it is, 

Your Story Holds Wisdom Others Can’t Learn from Books

You’ve lived through things—decades of change, challenge, and quiet triumph.
You’ve built a life. A family. A point of view. Maybe you’ve worked jobs no longer around, lived through wars or social changes, or navigated traditions that are starting to fade.

These lived experiences carry perspective, something younger generations are hungry for—even if they don’t know how to ask for it yet.

Your story isn’t just information. It’s context. It’s guidance. It’s human truth.

The Small Stories Are the Ones That Stick

You don’t need a dramatic life to be memorable.

Sometimes, it’s the smaller stories—growing up with siblings, your first love, how you chose your career, what Sunday afternoons looked like—that become the most cherished.

These are the pieces of life that shape identity. They help children and grandchildren understand who they come from—and often, understand themselves better.

You Don’t Need to Be a Writer to Tell Your Story

Many people imagine “telling their story” means writing a book. That can feel daunting—or even impossible.

But storytelling can be spoken. Gentle. Natural. Shared over conversation, not crafted into chapters.

That’s why many people now turn to video memoirs: filmed interviews where you simply sit down and share, in your own words, what you’ve lived through. It’s relaxed and thoughtful, guided by someone who knows how to draw the gold from the gravel.

Your Voice is a Legacy, Too

The way you speak. Your laughter. The expressions you use. These are parts of you that can’t be captured in writing. They’re part of what makes a video memoir so powerful—not just for you, but for the people who will watch it long after.

It becomes a legacy that lives on—not as a statue or a monument, but as you, simply being yourself.

Curious About What It Might Look Like?

At Heritage House Studio, we help people gently preserve their life stories on film—without scripts or pressure.

We offer a free consultation where you can ask questions, explore options, and see if it feels like something worth doing—for yourself, your children, or someone you love.

 

Because you don’t need to be famous to leave something lasting.
You just need to be willing to share.

And maybe now is the time.

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